Common Sense Relationship Break Up Advice

You've tried everything you could think of and then some but the relationship just isn't going to work out. You're in need of some good sound relationship break up advice. What do I do now? How do I hang out with "our" friends now? What do I say when people ask where my "ex" is?

These are all legitimate questions to ask yourself but you don't need to start frettin' just yet. People break up all the time and for various reasons. If all hope of rekindling the relationship is gone then it is time for you to move on.

Don't be concerned about what people may think or ask. Start being concerned about your self. By this I mean, you probably haven't been eating good, not exercising and having a good ole pity party for yourself.

A good health and fitness regime will do wonders for you. Taking care of your body can have a huge effect on your mental health. It should also:

Help you look better
Give you more self-confidence
Make you more attractive
Keep you young

The big tip here is that you shouldn't give up anything that can give you all those results. Hey, the relationship didn't work out but that's no reason for you not to feel good and look good. Focus on you for a while.

Don't go hiding away in some dark secluded closet. In other words, stay in the game and continue to go out. You might just find the person you're looking for. In this day and age there are so many places to meet new people. A few of those are mutual friends, sporting events or clubs, internet dating sites and even dating services.

Okay, here's a biggie...leave your ex alone. Try as best you can to avoid any contact with your ex. The chances are pretty high that tempers could flare again and who really needs that.

Be very careful not to fall in to a rebound relationship. I mean, don't you go falling in "love" with the first person you date. Give it some time. If there really is a spark, then it will more than likely become a flame.

The best relationship break up advice I can give you is to keep yourself physically fit which will keep you mentally fit. Don't hide away and keep to yourself. Go out and have some fun. You might be surprised by what is actually out there in the real world.

It's not all roses and cupcakes after a relationship has gone south. Hope, reason and common sense can come back into play in your life with time. Making sense of all can take time. Visit Relationship In Recovery for more information.