Relationship Enhancement - 6 Questions You Should Ask Yourself About Your Relationship

If your relationship isn't all you think it should be, consider what you are doing to shape it, and contribute to its current condition. I'm not pointing a finger of blame; but the simple fact is that you can only think of one thing at a time, and there's only so much time in a day, or days in a lifetime. If you don't think about how you want your relationship to be - it won't be. And, if you spend your time complaining about how your relationship is - that's how it will stay. Here are six-questions you should ask yourself about how you are investing your thoughts and time:

1. What do you spend your time thinking about? Make a list, be honest, and try to estimate how much time you spend on various topics or issues.

2. How much time do you spend thinking about your spouse or partner in a loving, supportive way?

3. How much time do you spend thinking about exactly what you want in life, and in your relationship?

4. How much time do you spend thinking and talking about things with your spouse or partner?

5. How much time do you spend thinking about the same kinds of things your partner thinks about?

6. How much time do you spend thinking about things that make you feel good, or happy?

The majority of people spend their time thinking about work, problems, money, debt, bills, what they're going to eat next, what's on television, or who's doing what to them to ruin their day or life. Most people simply don't spend their time thinking about their relationship in a way that enhances their relationship; rather, they state their views on the obvious and keep experiencing one version or another or the problems and complaints they continue to voice. It doesn't take a brain-surgeon to see that talking about problems doesn't solve them; more than half of the people who get married in the United States end up divorced.

Spend a little time thinking about how you've been investing your time, thoughts, and energy. If you do this with honesty and awareness, with an open heart and mind, you are very likely to notice that your life is a nearly perfect representation of your thoughts. If, for instance, you spend most of your time thinking negatively about "negative" things, you'll probably find that most of your life is negative - and filled with negative things, and more and more things to complain about. Take a moment and think about thinking - think about the thoughts you think. You'll probably realize how powerful and creative those thoughts actually are. Then, direct that powerful attention of yours to focus directly and completely on what you want in life - and how you want your life to be. Then, practice love and gratitude; think about your desires in a loving way - grateful for the fact that they are yours - and keep taking steps in that direction. If you redirect your thoughts, you will redirect your life, health, and even the tone and quality of your relationships.

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Pete Koerner is the author of The Belief Formula: The Secret to Unlocking the Power of Prayer. The Belief Formula is a look at how you can use ancient wisdom and modern scientific awareness to learn how to use your mind to reclaim your health and create the life of your dreams.

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