The Devil Dwelling In A Relationship

Having a crisis in relationship is just another challenge apart from health, job and finance that we have to face in our daily life. These are the 'life cycles' that every human being has to experience.

Having a good relationship could be a tough thing to do as we have to deal with other people and your own self. Despite of dealing with your own self and others' feeling and emotion, you have to take care of other living factors like health and money. Sound challenging if you haven't started analysing it yet?

There are several factors involved in a broken relationship. It is a mutual problem and never has been a one-way sided issue. The most crucial part is to start from evaluating yourself. If you don't have a happy and healthy living, how can you expect others to do the same. Even if they do, they are just hiding their feelings or being self denial. The longer the problem persists, the more severe the pain will be.

The best way is to take into consideration on your actions. You need to be transparent and let them acknowledge your problems. If you suffer from anxiety for instance, you must admit to them that you are having a problem. By sharing the thought with them, not only you will feel good of sharing your problem, probably they would have a better idea on how to treat the problem than how you do.

Sometimes, when you are taking too much responsibility out of the others, it is where possession takes place. Most probably, the others will feel the sense being controlled or manipulated, as you are taking away their power from them. To gain their respects, you must let them make their own decision at their own feet while you may just act a role as a supporter. Another worse scenario is that having fear that is beyond your relationship. This can also ruin a relationship particularly when having a fear in uncertainties, such as financial instability and health issues.

The best solution to this is to get out of the fear and move on with your life. Sometimes, you will find that by having a good relationship, you will overcome your problem spontaneously. The simple reason being that you have created the positive influence through a joyful relationship with your beloved ones. It is also important to feel appreciative and no regret for having your relationship, as this will lead you to one level up of your life of having a harmony life. You will find that there is no devil residing in your relationship anymore.

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Timothy D. Lee is a social counsellor and intuitive to strive fervently for the meaning of life. He loves to share his personal encounters with those interested in pursuing their ultimate relationships with the natural environment, to live in a better quality of life. Subscribe FREE newsletter at [http://www.anxietypanicdoctor.com/newsform241010ezine] for more tips on anxiety and panic attacks.