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2012年9月17日 星期一

Who's Responsible For Your Mental Wellbeing When at Work?


Cooper and Cartwright (1997) propose that psychological support in the workplace, or 'workplace counselling' as it is often referred to, has an important role in the maintenance and promotion of employee wellbeing. But has therapy or counselling still got an unfavourable connotation to it?

I'm left wondering if we only seek help when something's wrong, for example if you feel unfit you may seek out a gym supported by your employer or if you want motivation maybe a Life Coach but what if you want a gym for the mind. When your mind feels health you are more able to concentrate, think issues through, cope with challenges. A healthy mind I believe can also help you feel more rested in yourself and at ease with who you are and your environment.

So how does therapy for a healthy mind work? There are many options available nowadays from face to face work to even staying in the comfort of your own home and using the web cam or email options. This option is perfect for those of you who want services when you want them in a place that meets your needs rather than the therapists.

If we start to place all responsibilities on our mental health on our employer then I think we are asking them to be friend, mentor, parent, doctor etc, etc. I would propose that there is a joint responsibility for mental wellbeing when at work.

The government are pushing a strategy called New Horizons they state, "'A strategy that encourages people to protect themselves against mental illnesses like depression and anxiety will be of immense benefit. Mental ill health not only causes untold personal suffering and distress, but also affects people's relationships, ability to work, family life. It can lead to a range of physical health problems."

My advice is its not too late to start looking after your mental wellbeing!

References: Cooper, C. L., & Cartwright, S. (1997). An intervention strategy for workplace stress. Journal of Psychosomatic Research, 43 (1), 7-16.




https://www.newleaf.uk.com/ providing online and face to face counselling and therapy.

Becky Wright MBACP (Accred) , MSc, PGDip Couns, UKRC Reg is a qualified and experienced therapist and life coach with New Leaf https://www.newleaf.uk.com she offers online and face to face work via msm, web cam and Live Person.

Becky has a Life Coaching practice both online and via the Islington Therapy Centre based in London.




2012年9月9日 星期日

Health & Wellbeing - What is it and Why is it Good For You


With all the discussion about health and well being, it would probably be helpful to explain what health and well being is and, more importantly, why is it important for you? I am sure there are plenty of scientific and medical definitions that appropriately answer this question, but I am going to give you my real life definition of health and well being based on personal experience.

Health in my opinion is about taking care of your mind and body so that you can make the most of life. Well being is when you start to experience the benefits that are created by effectively managing your health and also incorporates all the other aspects of your life in way that can make you feel amazing. To manage your well being takes into account your mind and body, but it is also relationships, work and life in general.

It is for this reason that I believe health and well being are intrinsically linked. By having a healthy mind and body, my well being has improved because I have the physical ability, energy and positive outlook required to create opportunities in life and overcome whatever hurdles get thrown my way. I enjoy being healthy but I also enjoy all the well being benefits that I get from leading a healthy lifestyle. I can eat well, treat myself, focus on my relationships and achieve a lot in life because of the natural energy I get from being fit and healthy.

Let me give you an example, when I am feeling a bit flat or down I know that one of the best things that I can do to lift my mood is go for a run. In my case, I find that running gives me an outlet from my worries and time to myself to re energize. After I have been on a really amazing run, I feel much more positive and able to deal with whatever it was that was worrying me before. When I first started running, I did it to get fit but now I am actually motivated by the well being benefits I just described.

On the flip side, I have been really sick this past week with an awful virus. I have been absolutely miserable all week and have not managed to exercise for ages. I feel crap. At the same time as being sick, I am also trying to get this website finished and move into a new apartment to start living with my amazing partner. Needless to say, these are fantastic life changes that I am desperate to get on with, but both have been placed on hold because I am too sick to do either. Now, were I in my normal healthy state of mind, I would be able to see that it is just a short term issue and a week does not make a difference. Instead, my frustration has festered away in my sickly body allowing a negative mindset to creep in. The result was an irrational blast of crappy mood unfairly fired in my Partner's direction. I now feel awful and guilty because no matter what you say, good or bad, you can never take it back and I know that if I was healthy, it would not have happened. I think this example illustrates something that we all know; being unhealthy can have a negative impact on all aspects of your life.

So, after all of that, why is health and well being important to you? Well, I have mentioned a few reasons that I have experienced in my own life. Being healthy means you can live longer with better quality of life because you have the physical and emotional armory in place to flourish. Managing your well being can give your life the richness and color that makes it more than an existence. Well being can provide you with a positive outlook and natural resilience that will help you to nurture your relationships; take pleasure in life; and survive whatever hurdles may get thrown your way.

Now, as I said at the start, all of this is not based on a scientific journal. It is purely my opinion based on personal experience but hopefully gives you some thoughts on how managing your health and well being could help you.




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2012年9月4日 星期二

Total Wellness - Dealing With Health And Wellbeing At The Source


Wellness includes your mind, your body and your soul. Happy people are usually healthy people. People who are stressed and worried, or angry or complacent become unhealthy. No matter what they eat or drink. The science of health is internally connected to the science of the mind and attitudes to life. We approach health from a holistic angle in order to remain young and vital in love. There is no value in blaming ourselves for our state of health. But we can empower ourselves to be as healthy as possible.

Wellness also includes the connection between our emotional body and our physical body. This is where the real empowerment comes from. Insights can come through body mind science as a natural way of understanding the total health of the body. In this ancient art we believe the mind and the body to be one, and that the body's health is the most accurate measure of the health of the mind. The body is natures bible. Constitutional Analysis at work eBook

Wellness is a very spiritual thing. Simply put, happiness in mind and body causes us the confidence to do what we are born to do and this is a very spiritual experience. Finding youthful vitality comes through wellness. This is not a new science. 6,000 years ago Ayurvedic scientists found that people who lived in tune with the unique combination of these elements that is their constitution, found health and happiness easily. And those who defied - or lived out of balance, suffered disease and struggle.

Wellness in the mind means to expect the best from life. This is not to be confused with greed, sex, emotional instability and excess eating. Many overweight people are simply replacing love for life, with food for life, diets therefore, are rarely the answer. What is extraordinary, is the application of this amazing study to relationships and business. Choosing staff, creating productive environments, aligning healthy job descriptions with natural talents has the potential to increase the effectiveness of the business world, while reducing stress.

Wellness is a state of mind that causes health. False expectations, unrealistic goals, unfinished business from past experiences all attack our mind and cause ill health. It is the job of any wellness program to address these issues and clear them - permanently. Constitutional Analysis is based on your body type. Your body can tell us more about your mind, than your mind can tell about your body. The beauty of it is that, you can read these simple signs spontaneously. So, not only do you understand yourself better, but you understand others equally well.

Wellness also requires a good perspective on life. Many people are so judgmental and yet, they fail to see the effect of those judgments on their own health. How we treat others is how we treat ourselves. So, we teach people, that instead of dividing the world into demographics (locations), or psychographics (thoughts), constitutions will be a far more honest and accurate grouping of behavioural traits. Earth people act that way universally while Air people are the same the world over. Their buying patterns are identical and their product hopes the same with highly predicable needs and values. With this, the opportunity to serve clients and their requirements becomes more honest, accurate and spontaneous.

Wellness also comes from self respect. Valuing your body mind through constitutional analysis will reveal information right from the food you eat, the cause of your moods, identify the colours that calm you and the music that can inspire you. It makes being you, so much easier. It's a simple way to be conscious and unique.

Wellness, at the end of the day, is energy. Energetically you feel different when you are healthy and well. This requires a balanced approach to mind, body and spirit development. Youthful people are clear and balanced people. Constitutional analysis is a great gift for youth as well. For decades, a normal child has been forced to live the way his society, family, race or country wants him to live. Nobody wants to know what is in him. The child goes through molding or reshaping of various kinds. By time he is an adult there is a big, thick, concrete wall between his True Nature and body. This wall comprising of patterns, beliefs, personalities, habits and so on, does not have anything to do with him. His Pre Nature is dying inside so a life built on or based on these 'non-constitutional' patterns will never give fulfillment.




http://www.chriswalker.com.au Chris Walker is a world leading change agent, an environmentalist and author of more than 20 books. Born and bred in Australia, he consults to people and organisations throughout the world on improved relationships, health and lifestyle through the application of the Universal laws of Nature. The result he offers is that we stay balanced, share loving relationships, work with passion, enjoy success, and live our personal truth. To learn more about Chris?s work and journeys to Nepal, visit http://www.chriswalker.com.au -- http://www.chriswalker.com.au




2012年7月22日 星期日

Taking Control of Your Health & Well-Being


Do you ever wonder why, in spite of all your good intentions, you just cannot seem to take control over your health and wellness the way you really want to? The answer to that question can be found in the words of Albert Einstein, who reminded us "you cannot correct a problem with the same thinking that created it". In other words, you cannot change old behaviors without new information.

The Institute of Medicine recently published a study that indicates ninety million Americans are "health illiterate", which means we do not know how to interpret or use health information to control or improve our health, or prevent chronic disease. Data compiled previously identified, "lack of information as the number one root cause of death". Understanding that there exists a cause and effect relationship between what we know and how we behave, we need a model of integrating this important information to change the behaviors that lead to chronic disease. According to a 7-year, 1996, Harvard Medical School study, approximately 70% of all cancers are preventable through lifestyle changes. Furthermore, our diseases and conditions are primarily a result of stress, food, environment, attitude, emotions or beliefs that keep us in behaviors that lead to illness. Which invites the question, are we consciously choosing to be unhealthy, or do we just not understand sufficiently the relationship between what we think, how we behave, what we put into our bodies and how we keep ourselves well or make ourselves sick?

In a world exploding with health information, especially on the internet, we are caught in the dilemma of having abundant amounts of information, without a context through which we can understand and utilize this information in a way that is appropriate for our own unique personal health needs. There is, however, good news - making its way into the mainstream of health care is an integrated model of health information and education that provides a "whole picture of health" perspective, allowing each of us to discern and create our own unique approach to taking charge of our health and well-being. Whole Health Education, developed over the past 28 years, in cooperation with Boston physicians, nurses and educators, is an approach to understanding the cause and effect our behaviors and choices have on our state of health. Demystifying the five major factors that influence how sick or well we become, Whole Health Education provides a perspective on human anatomy and physiology, bio-chemistry, psycho-social, environmental and spiritual aspects which allows for an authentic understanding of what we need know to resolve chronic health problems or to stay healthy. Integrating evidence-based information with the wisdom of various spiritual teachings and a whole-person overview of behavioral options, Whole Health Education offers each of us a tool for personal health management by providing personalized health information that explains the physical, emotional, nutritional, environmental and spiritual aspects of a health concern.

For example, Mature Onset Diabetes affects approximately 18.2 million Americans and is the leading health concern in our culture today. As all chronic conditions are, Mature Onset Diabetes is a multi-dimensional disease state and the unique Whole Health perspective, can facilitate the restoration of health for those with chronic diseases such as diabetes.

Physical/Structural

What happens on a physical and structural level with Mature Onset Diabetes? The specialized beta cells of the pancreas, which produce insulin, become incapable of producing adequate amounts of the critically necessary secretion. This happens over a period of years and can begin in our bodies, over time, by eating large amounts of insulin-provoking foods. These insulin provocateurs, which are sugars and starches in the form of complex carbohydrates, require the pancreas to produce more insulin so that the sugars can be carried over the cell membranes to all parts of the body. Serious disturbances occur when we do not have enough insulin to carry the sugar over the cell membranes. Insulin hooks onto the sugar molecule and acts like a lock and key mechanism to bring that sugar into the cell which is then used in the energy cycle of cell metabolism. The nervous system, brain and the lungs cannot function without the proper metabolism of sugars.

Emotional/Social

Just as diabetes is a lack of nourishment on a chemical/nutritional level, so is it a lack of emotional nourishment on an emotional/mental level. It relates to the "feel good" nourishment component of your body. What do we know about carbohydrates and serotonin? Carbohydrates provoke the production of serotonin. Serotonin is a neuro-transmitter that produces a feeling of well-being. There is a direct relationship between what our body is doing chemically and how we feel emotionally. When we crave or build our diet around carbohydrates, this can be a way of "self-medicating" our emotional needs by eating carbohydrates to provoke insulin production.

Sugar problems can affect us emotionally. Let's say you have a pancreas that is not working properly. What can happen somatic/psychically from the pancreas to the brain? If we are feeling the ups and downs of hypoglycemia, and its biochemical/neurological symptoms, it may undermine our sense of security, self esteem, and produce anxiety and fear.

What is the emotional component of diabetes and the pancreas? Often, it can be a poor sense of self-esteem and a fear of not being "good enough" or not belonging. These feelings, medicated by the serotonin foods, can lead us to not look deeply enough into what is causing our health concerns and allow the feeling/feeding cycle to continue.

Chemical/Nutritional

On the nutritional side, the treatment for people with Mature Onset Diabetes is to decrease the stress on the pancreas by making changes in their diet -- decrease starches and sugars and decrease calories. Eat less, eat right. What kind of a diet would be best for preventing Mature Onset Diabetes? Vegetables, vegetables, and vegetables combined with lean proteins such as fish, chicken, water, a little fruit and a little fat. In a hypoglycemic situation, it is wise not to eat grain or sugar, but sprouted grain bread, and other substitutes can be healthy and satisfying.

Because hormones are chemicals, diabetes and hypoglycemia are both hormonal-based problems. What we know about the hormone system is that it works as a balanced interdependent system. Diabetes is an endocrine-related, systemic problem. With a systemic problem like diabetes, you have a body system problem--you do not just have a condition by itself. It is known that the pancreas is related, through hormone interaction, to the adrenals, and the adrenals are in turn related to the reproductive system. It is known that these glands are related through hormone interactions to the pituitary and the pituitary is related to the thyroid gland, the thyroid is related to the thymus, and the thymus is related to the immune system.

Environmental/Internal & External

The environment that we work in, live in, walk through, live near -- how does that environment have an impact on the way that we feel and the way we feel about ourselves?

How do we learn to trust in the order of the universe? By behaviors that come from trusting the order inside ourselves. We do this by setting boundaries -- codes of conduct of how we are going to behave, eat, work exercise and live. If we don't violate our own boundaries, we are less likely to let anybody else violate our boundaries. We have to start with ourselves. Our experience of victimization can begin with our own self-victimizing behavior.

Spiritual/World View

A Hindu Vendata truth is that "the whole world is one family". It is said that there is only one disease, the disease of separateness, separating oneself from the awareness that we are one living organism. Competition creates isolation. The spiritual challenge presented by hypoglycemia and diabetes appears to be involved with over- or under-valuing the self: judgment of self and then others. Where are we in the process of getting to the truth that we are all equally important? The drama created by a one-up or one-down dynamic that we may allow to be part of our experience can lead to psychophysiology and the behavioral issues which can contribute to and create Mature Onset Diabetes.

Whole Health Education can transform our experience of taking care of ourselves. It can provide an understanding of our health concerns and conditions from this multi-dimensional perspective that makes sense in a way we can utilize the information directly and in a meaningful way. In addition, having the information provided in a mindful, respectful way that invites each of us to discern what we know about our health and condition, how to choose to resolve the problem and what kind of care we choose to have, allows each of us to experience whole-person health care through whole health information. Then, WE become the center of our health and healing process, rather than the doctors or practitioners we go to for guidance.



2012年6月21日 星期四

Marriage Fitness Test - A 10 Point Checkup Measuring Marital Health and Well-Being


In my years of private practice specializing in couples therapy, I have come to some central truths about elements vital to marital health and the prognosis for intimate relationships based on ten critical factors. Give yourself and your spouse a giant service by each taking this ten minute test and comparing notes.

If individually or together you average below 80% when you tally up, your marriage is limping along and needs some work! If your scores are 80% or higher, you are already doing a lot of things right, and it's probably not an accident. Now your job is to become more aware of who's doing what to nurture the marriage, so you can both commit to consciously continuing the good work!

Rate your relationship on a scale of one to ten, with ten being the highest score:

1. Do you both have an overall feeling of happiness in your relationship?

2. Do you spend quality time together on a regular basis?

3. Do you divide the chores of life (childcare, bill paying, housework, laundry, shopping, earning a living, etc.), in a way which feels fair and even-handed to you both?

4. Do you show appreciation and respect for eachother?

5. Do you feel free enough to speak openly about your wants, needs, and hurts?

6. Do you each put energy into being emotionally / sexually close?

7. Do your fights feel safe and ultimately productive?

8. Do you honor eachother's need for space (alone time, individual friendships)?

9. Do you protect eachother from other people's unacceptable or hurtful behaviors?

10. Do you keep agreements and promises?

Reflect upon, and discuss your results and scores. In areas where you have scored lower, resolve to making one significant change with an action plan in the coming weeks, as a good beginning. Retest yourselves in one month and notice any improvements, then move on to another area of weakness and do the same thing. If nothing seems to shift in a meaningful way, you may consider professional help.




Susan Lager, LICSW, is a board certified psychotherapist in private practice in Portsmouth, N.H. where at The Couples Center, she specializes in providing comprehensive services to married and unmarried partners at all stages of the coupling process. In May 2010 she launched Couplespeak, for online coaching, consultation, training programs and materials designed to assist individuals and couples strengthen and build their relationships. Look for her now on her blog about relationship issues at: http://susanlagerbeaclosercouple.blogspot.com/




2012年6月17日 星期日

Toxic Relationships - How They Affect Wellness and Well-Being


The goal of this brief article is to reveal the derogatory affect of toxic relationships on one's overall health, and to offer tips for dealing with them.

Recently I was talking with my doctor, and he spoke about the impact of toxic relationships on health and well-being. He told me he sees, on a daily basis, the adverse role bad relationships play in cancer, heart disease and other serious illnesses.

In particular, people who are fighting cancer must be very mindful of their relationships, he said, and take immediate steps to improve any stressful ones or those with derogatory effects.

Also, he went on to say anyone who is fighting a major illness should surround himself with good, high-quality relationships that will lift him up, and not tear him down.

Their healing may depend on it!

Many cancer patients are finding that an integrative approach to healing is the most promising. This approach involves making lifestyle changes, including exercise and diet, and considers the role played by living conditions and relationships.

Sometimes people stay in bad relationships and endure their abuses, without stopping to consider the seriousness of their impact upon their health and happiness. It's easy to overlook the impact of toxic relationships on our lives (and the lives of those whom we love). And the long-term consequences are often devastating, such as the development of emotional problems.

In reality, harmful relationships cause us to worry and lose sleep. They produce anxiety and stress. They can cause an increase in blood pressure and play a role in the development of disease!

They undermine our self-confidence and wear us down, emotionally and physically, imposing a heavy tax on the immune system. Bad relationships are socially problematic and may have an adverse affect one's career and personal life.

In short, they lower our quality of life.

What You Can Do

1. Be honest with yourself about the affect any given relationship is having on you. Don't sugar-coat the truth.

2. Get the help you need in dealing with the relationship. Take appropriate action if your relationship(s) is hurting you. Not dealing with it may seem easier but is really harder in the long run.

3. Take immediate steps to improve your relationships if you are suffering from a chronic disease, your immune system has been compromised or you are in poor health.

If you want to feel better and be happier, start by examining your relationships. If you find that a bad relationship is burdening you, take action to correct the situation. You'll be feeling better in no time.




Richard Hamon is a dynamic coach and therapist with 30 years of professional experience. Richard helps people to solve their relationship problems, enjoy truly extraordinary marriages and find exceptional success in all areas of their lives.

You'll find all kinds of articles on how to spice up your relationships and lead a happier life at Richard's website, Happy-Relationships.com. Find out about personal coaching programs to assist you in quickly reaching your loftiest goals. Discover eBooks, relaxation CDs and other informative products, such as a free relationship quiz to help you assess your relationship.

For more information on conducting state-of-the-art relationships, the latest research on true happiness, and Richard's products and services, please go to: http://happy-relationships.com