Can a Relationship Be Saved After a Messy Break Up?

Can a relationship be saved after a messy break up? This is a question I often receive through the comments on my blog. The answer comes from my experience with helping people who find themselves "suddenly single" and still in love with their ex.

Can a relationship be saved? The answer is actually yes, it most certainly can in many cases, but be prepared for some hard work and sacrifice on your part.

Saving a relationship after a break up is not easy and can often feel almost as painful as the actual break up itself.

Here's a list to check if you are going to be able to make the distance:

1. Do you have the self discipline to take a complete break from your relationship and your ex for about 4 weeks? In this time you will not be able to call, write email, or even text message.

2. Will you be willing make a commitment to look deeply and honestly into your relationship and try and find out the truth about what really went wrong?

3. Are you able to keep an open mind and learn how your partner ticks? I don't mean on the outside, like understanding what food they like or what music is their favourite. I am asking will you actually take the time to learn the basic differences between what men want in a relationship and what women need from a relationship? This it at the crux of determining whether a relationship can be saved.

4. Will you make sure that you take the time that you will be apart from your ex and use it on yourself, making sure you look after your health and mental well being, including socialising with your friends again?

5. Are you prepared to follow a step by step plan to get back with your ex? This means even if you your heart is telling you to do one thing, your head will take control and follow the advice of a highly successful relationships mending program?

If you can answer a strong "yes" to all of the questions above then you are certainly ready to begin the journey of making up with your ex and finding out for yourself the answer to your question "Can a relationship be saved?"

Now once you are mentally prepared for what is ahead of you it's time to take some action and begin the process of making up with your ex. What I want you to do next is follow this link to the Magic Of MakingUp information pages.

Once you get there please take the time to find out exactly how successful the Magic Of Making Up has been in mending relationship break ups for people just like you who do not want to be apart from the ex. Read the advice articles, watch the free videos, and most importantly check out the testimonials page and look for people with stories just like yours.

You will soon see that the Magic of Making Up has already helped thousands of people mend their relationship and that the program can most likely help you too. Once you have finished on that website, follow up your investigations with a visit to the can a Relationship Be Saved [http://www.squidoo.com/themagicofmakingupsystem] pages here if you need to.

After that, I suggest you waste no more time and download the Magic Of Making Up . That way you can get started on making up with your ex as soon as possible. Delay only makes things harder as each day goes by.